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Caring Through Chaos: A New Lifeline for Dementia Caregiver
Celebrating our newest book and the caregivers who inspired i t. Today was a special day. Ruth and I had the honor of launching our newest book, Caring Through Chaos: Notebook for Dementia Caregivers , at the Northern Virginia Dementia Care Consortium 2025 —a gathering dedicated to dementia caregiver support , essential caregiving resources , and innovative person-centered dementia care . As we stood among family caregivers, nurses, social workers, and memory-care profes
Barbara Huelat
Nov 222 min read


When Design Becomes a Silent Caregiver
On August 18, 2025 , I had the privilege of presenting at ASID Gather in Atlanta , sharing how design becomes a silent caregiver, my...
Barbara Huelat
Sep 81 min read


A New Chapter in the Dementia Journey: Introducing the Taming Chaos of Dementia Institute
Dear Friends, I want to share something deeply personal—and exciting. After years of walking the dementia caregiving journey myself,...
Barbara Huelat
Jun 243 min read


Two New Books to Support Your Dementia Journey - Coming June 17th !
Dear Friends, I’m thrilled to share some exciting news — not just one, but two new caregiver resources will be launching on June 17th...
Barbara Huelat
Jun 32 min read


Who Am I Now? The Loss of Identity in Dementia
Who Am I Now? The Loss of Identity in Dementia Reflections from a Caregiver’s Heart As a caregiver to my husband Joe, there were so many...
Barbara Huelat
Apr 45 min read


Dementia and the Phantom Limb Effect: Grieving in Real Time
They say that when someone loses a limb, they can still feel it—an ache, a tingling sensation, a ghostly presence of what once was.
Barbara Huelat
Mar 74 min read


What Do You See? Changing the Lens on Aging and Dementia
What do you see? The Burden? or the Person? Why do you write off older adults too soon? Yes, you. Why do we all do it? It’s easy to...
Barbara Huelat
Feb 213 min read


Alzheimer's in the Shadows: Can We Break the Stigma of Dementia?
Breaking the Stigma of Dementia I thought the stigma around dementia was long past. Haven’t we moved beyond the days of whispered...
Barbara Huelat
Feb 44 min read


Invisible Warriors: The Cost of Overlooking Male Caregivers
When Mark’s wife, Sara, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer’s, he believed his toughest battle would be facing the disease itself....
Barbara Huelat
Jan 244 min read


Genes vs. Lifestyle: Taking Control of My Brain Health
Dementia is one of the most frightening health risks facing the aging population. I know this all too well—I have been a dementia...
Barbara Huelat
Jan 173 min read


Dementia: The Silent Storm We Can No Longer Ignore
Storms have a way of grabbing our attention. Whether it's the snow and ice storms that recently swept across the Midwest and East Coast,...
Barbara Huelat
Jan 104 min read


The Best Gift You Can Give This Christmas: Presence
The holidays are often painted as a season of joy, laughter, and togetherness. But for those of us caring for a loved one with dementia,...
Barbara Huelat
Dec 20, 20243 min read


Ready for Anything: Building a Dementia Care Emergency Kit
One minute, Joe and I were enjoying a quiet evening, and the next, we were plunged into darkness. The power had gone out, and Joe, ever...
Barbara Huelat
Dec 2, 20244 min read


Art for the Aging: A Visit to the Creative Aging Program at Phillips Collection
Last night, I had the pleasure of visiting the Phillips Collection in Washington, D.C. , for a special exhibit showcasing artwork created...
Barbara Huelat
Nov 22, 20243 min read


Barbara Delivers Keynote at Erasmus Medical Center in Rotterdam
2024 NSTC Biomedicine and Precision Medicine Workshop – Netherlands October 21, 2024 | Erasmus Medical Center, Rotterdam The Erasmus...
Barbara Huelat
Oct 25, 20241 min read


Behind Every Caregiver: The Superhero Story of Compassion
In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, dementia caregivers emerge as true superheroes, navigating the complexities of...
Barbara Huelat
Oct 18, 20243 min read


What Journaling Taught Me About Caregiving
Caregiving is a journey like no other. It can be deeply rewarding, but it also comes with immense emotional and physical demands. As...
Barbara Huelat
Sep 26, 20245 min read


Alzheimer’s in Crisis: September 21st, World Alzheimer’s Day
As many of you know, my late husband, Joe, passed away with Alzheimer’s Disease. It was a heart-wrenching journey that I faced both as...
Barbara Huelat
Sep 20, 20245 min read


What are the Golden Rules of Dementia Communication? Things to Avoid Saying to Someone with Dementia
What are the "Golden Rules of Dementia Communication? I wish I had known the golden rules of dementia caregiving when I was caring for...
Barbara Huelat
Sep 6, 20245 min read


What Are the Best Fall Prevention Strategies for Dementia Care?
Falls are something I think about a lot—not just because a fall once sent me to the hospital for a knee replacement, but because, as a...
Barbara Huelat
Aug 30, 20244 min read
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